What more can I say that I haven’t already said?! Just WHAT?! Repeat that you are whacko becsause you still want to be married to a man who abusive you psychologically, emotionally and physically? A man who has taken everything from you: your child, your wealth, your dignity, your livelihood, your body, your friends, your family? So to what end do you still think this is healthy for you?
So you think in your sad clouded mind you want to save a dysfunctional toxic marriage? A marriage he no longer wants because you have no more to give. He has used you all up and now wants newer prey to seduce, to fuck, to use up like a red dressed whore he considers all women to be?
You have been brainwashed, You do not know who you are anymore. You see no future. You cannot imagine being able to survive alone. But you can. So many in your condition have with the help that you have at your doorstep. But you refuse help or advice from people who love you and care for you. You stonewall your attorney who is working for your best interest, who is working diligently and smartly to protect you. You avoid counseling that can help you clear your mind of toxic haze.
This marriage is and has always been a sham. I do, your friends, your family, everyone sees this but you, how your continued attachment to this debacle will continue to drag you down into the black maw of suffering of your own ignorance.
You are too sad to be pitied, only scorned for your unwillingness to realize, to consider, to understand your desperate pathetic plight. Please. I implore you, please awaken from your fear induced hopeless longing clinging attachment. You have to decide for yourself: to dwell with your attachment and suffering or to do the work to let go. I hope you choose the latter … I now and always will love you.
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Have you actually known something like this?
Yes, sadly, yes I know someone like this who was seriously mentally, emotinaly, and physically abused and refuses to get the help she desperately needs. Thanks for asking.